Srinagar: In a worrisome trend, late marriages are taking a heavy toll on the youth of Kashmir, impacting their physical and mental well-being, social dynamics, and economic prospects.
Societal norms, economic challenges, and a changing lifestyle have contributed to this phenomenon, prompting experts to call for awareness campaigns, policy interventions, and community support to address the issue.
A senior citizen while talking to Precious Kashmir said, “A combination of factors, including educational pursuits, economic instability, and aspirations for better career opportunities, has led to young people delaying their marriages. While the pursuit of education and career advancement is commendable, the prolonged period of singlehood has its consequences.”
Dr Amina Khan, a psychologist, warned that late marriages can lead to increased stress and anxiety among the youth, who may feel societal pressure and personal insecurities about their marital status. “This prolonged phase of singlehood can negatively impact mental health and self-esteem, potentially leading to issues like depression and loneliness,” she said.
Furthermore, the late marriage trend can have implications on physical health. According to the medical experts delaying marriage and parenthood can affect fertility rates, increasing the risk of complications during pregnancy and childbirth. This is particularly concerning in a society where family and community are deeply valued.
Economically, late marriages can have significant implications. Dr. Sameer Ahmad, an economist, explained that a delay in marriage can mean that young people remain financially dependent on their families for a longer period. “This prolonged financial reliance can strain family resources and limit the opportunities for economic growth and individual financial independence,” he added.
Moreover, the changing dynamics of late marriages also impact societal structure. Kashmiri society is closely knit and familial relationships play a pivotal role. The delay in marriage disrupts the traditional family structure, which may have unintended consequences on social cohesion and community harmony.
Marital bonds are not only personal but also serve as connections between families and communities. Delayed marriages can potentially affect these bonds, leading to altered social dynamics.
The situation, according to the observers, has been further exacerbated by the challenges of finding suitable matches for late marriages. “With a focus on education and careers, young people are often unable to devote time to the process of searching for life partners. This can lead to increased stress and anxiety, as they struggle to strike a balance between personal and professional aspirations,” said a social worker.
Recognizing the multifaceted challenges arising from this trend, experts emphasize the importance of addressing the issue holistically. Awareness campaigns aimed at promoting the benefits of early marriages, while also acknowledging the significance of education and career aspirations, could play a pivotal role in shifting societal attitudes. Open discussions about mental health, societal pressure, and the impact of late marriages can help remove the stigma associated with these topics, encouraging young people to seek support when needed.
