Earned, Not Given

By: Danish Ashraf Khan

Success does not come easily. It does not come by magic. It does not come in a single day. It is something that we earn slowly with hard work and with full dedication. It is something that comes to those who are ready to keep going even when everything feels difficult. Whether you are preparing for a government job exam or a test like NEET, JEE, SSC, or UPSC, the rule is always the same. If you have a big dream, you will have to make big sacrifices. Your dream will test your patience and your strength. It will ask you how badly you want it.
There will be days when you will feel tired. Your eyes will burn from reading too much. Your mind will feel heavy from solving so many questions. You will feel like stopping and taking a break. You will feel like you have done enough for the day. But at that moment you need to remember why you started. Was your goal just to try for some time and then give up? Or did you promise yourself that you will give your best until the very end? Dreams are not for those who stop halfway. Dreams are for those who continue even when it is painful.
Every time you feel like giving up, think about all the hours you have already given to your dream. Think about all those early mornings when you woke up to study. Think about all those late nights when you kept going when others were sleeping. Think about the fun you missed, the parties you skipped, the mobile games you left, just so you could stay focused. If you give up now, all of that will be wasted. That is why this is not the time to slow down. This is the time to push harder. This is the time to show yourself that you can do it.
The truth is that history remembers those who keep going. Nobody remembers those who stop in the middle. The world remembers the students who stayed awake when the world slept. It remembers those who cried in silence but still picked up the book again the next morning. It remembers those who were laughed at but still moved forward quietly. You too can be that person. Be the one who keeps faith in the dream even when nobody else believes in it.
If you want success tomorrow, you need to be ready to sacrifice today. Look at any topper or any winner. Look at anyone you admire. They all have one thing in common. They chose discipline over laziness. They chose hard work over easy comfort. They said no to parties, no to wasting time, no to excuses. That is why they have reached the place where everyone claps for them. That is why they have what many people only wish for.
You might wonder how you can prepare better for your exam. The answer is simple. You need a routine that you can follow every day. A routine that helps you stay focused without feeling lost.
Here is a golden plan that you can follow. Divide your day into three parts.
First, give eight hours to study. This should be study without distractions. Divide this time into smaller parts like two or three hours at a time. Take short breaks in between to relax your mind. Use this time to do practice papers, revise your notes, and test yourself. Active learning is better than just reading again and again.
Second, give eight hours to sleep. Many students think sleep is a waste of time. But that is wrong. Your brain needs sleep to stay fresh. When you sleep well, you remember what you studied. Your mood stays better. Your energy stays strong. So do not waste your nights on mobile phones. Go to bed on time and get good sleep.
Third, give eight hours to refresh yourself. This does not mean wasting time. Use this time to eat healthy food, help your family, take a short walk, or do something that keeps you calm. You can try meditation or light exercise. This balance will make you stronger inside and outside.
The most important thing is to be honest with your routine. Be regular. Be simple. Do not spend too much time thinking or planning. Start doing. Success comes to those who take small steps every day and do not stop.
Remember, this journey is not only about clearing an exam. It is about becoming stronger. It is about learning to face failure and still getting up. It is about fighting stress and still smiling. It is about believing in yourself even when people doubt you. You will face temptations. There will be social media, friends asking you to join them, or the desire to relax and do nothing. But each time you say no to these things, you become stronger. Each time you choose your goal over fun, you come one step closer to success.
Let others sleep while you work for your dream. Let others waste time while you build your future. Let your pain today become the proof that you are walking the right path.
Because one day your hard work will bring results. One day your name will appear in that final list. One day you will wear that uniform or enter that dream college. One day your parents will look at you with tears of joy and pride. And on that day, you will thank yourself for being strong. You will thank yourself for not giving up.
So keep dreaming big. Be ready to sacrifice for your dream. And always remember, your struggle today is the price you are paying for a brighter and happier tomorrow. Keep going. Your success is waiting for you.
The writer is a Teacher / Writer/
Public Servent
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