The male political establishment must share more space with its women

This election, as with elections before, has seen the usual sniping at the women in the fray by their male counterparts. So, we had ugly references to the feisty Smriti Irani’s marital statusto Priyanka Gandhi’s change of attire from skirts and trousers to sarees with the aim of getting votes. Film actresses in the arena seem to bring out the worst in certain male politicians with the barbs being mainly about their ability to dance and garner votes. Looks, girth, family — anything goes when it comes to insulting women candidates.
This is not a particularly Indian phenomenon. We have seen it in many other countries, including in Trump’s America. The minute women come forward to compete in politics, they face a backlash of serious proportions. These include abuse in public arenas and online and even physical attacks. Mercifully, we have not had physical violence against women candidates this election. Women may be making an impact in public life more than ever in India but this has not translated into greater political influence. We have a woman foreign minister and defence minister but the general impression is that it is the men who take the big decisions in these ministries. When Balakot happened, there was not much evidence of the defence minister playing an active role.
Clearly, political equality is still far away on the Indian political horizon. And it will remain so as long as it is seen as a women’s issue. The good fight must be fought equally by men. I cannot quite see real women’s rights becoming a talking point in political discourse just yet, but the sheer force of women voters alone could bring about a change eventually. Male politicians must take a lead role in challenging traditions which foster inequality and also unequivocally condemn the misogynistic language that their counterparts use when it comes to women. This cannot be an issue that comes to the fore during elections. It has to be an ongoing process in which the male political establishment must also promote policies which encourage greater participation of women in politics and give them greater representation in public life. If a man makes a derogatory remark about a female politician, it must not be left to the feminist brigade to counter it. I did not see too many men come to the support of actor-turned-politician Jaya Prada when a male politician made unsavoury remarks about the colour of her innerwear. If a significant number of male politicians had ticked off this serial offender, he might have second thoughts about repeating this sort of ugly conduct.
It is not enough to just sensitise men. This goes beyond that. If powerful male politicians were serious about gender equality, they would push for a more egalitarian system and allow women to share the political spaces that they so zealously guard.